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Thoughts on Growing Old

The fact that for centuries people have been trying to find the secret to eternal youth and living forever is just more proof that God is who He says He is. Te search for the fountain of youth and cryogenics are just two of the most famous endeavors to sustain our human bodies. The fact that we believe eternal life is possible or desirable is just more proof that we have been created by the Almighty with a deep-seated knowledge that this life is not going to end. Someplace far inside each human is the innate knowing that we were intended to exist forever. So, we seek to make it true. We strive through life-saving measures in medicine, foods we eat, fads we try, make-up, creams and more to stay young and last eternally here on this planet.

But as I watch the aging process in my dog and my mother-in-law, I wonder why it is we want to remain in this shell forever. Why do we attempt to prolong this part of eternity instead of gracefully moving on to the next stage in the promise of everlasting life?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not an “eyes on heaven” kind of person. In fact, I tell people all the time heaven isn’t enough to make me want to stay focused on Christ. It’s the blessings that following Him in this life bring that keeps me focused on His love that bought my redemption. But we talk about death as if it’s the end. We try to prolong our life here as if we’re being cheated if we die young (or even old).

Think of it this way . . . if you decided to go on a free cruise to the Bahamas, would you feel cheated because you missed your family while you were gone? And in heaven we won’t even miss anyone! I picture God’s timing (or the lack of time in heaven) to make it seem like we all get there at the same moment.

I’m not looking forward to the pain and “stuff” that growing old brings. Arthritis does not seem attractive, and I don’t want to lose my sight or my hearing. In fact, my vanity isn’t even looking forward to sagging skin and wrinkles.

On the other hand, I don’t want to think that death is the end or teach my grandchildren that it’s a sad thing. For a Christian death is like winning the lottery or a trip to your ultimate vacation destination, and it’s a place that the whole family is invited to come to someday if they want to! (I pray my whole family chooses to join me).

I don’t want to prolong the inevitable so far that I have no life here in the living. I see that so much. Just because we can put in a pacemaker, should we in every instance? I praise God for the technology that brings a quality life to those who have more to give. However, I wonder what our Savior thinks when we use the gift He’s given us to play God and keep the shell of a person breathing.

I’ll admit, I have more questions than answers about when it’s the right time to use the gifts and advances in medicine that God has blessed us with. All I do know is that I will never again say someone was “cheated’ just because they moved from this life to the presence of Jesus earlier than our human minds thought was fair. I will think twice, and pray with fervency before I automatically do “everything possible” to sustain this tent that we call a body. Instead I will remember these verses:
2 Corinthians 5:8 – We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.
and
Revelation 14:13 – Then I heard a voice from heaven say, “Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.”
“Yes,” says the Spirit, “they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them.”

Guns . . . so controversial

I try really hard to never “attack” anyone on this blog or even make anything sound like I’m coming against any person. Instead I try to always keep my thoughts toward ideologies and such. This post may sound directed toward one person because of recent Facebook posts, and for that I’m sorry. But the sentiments are for just general and not meant to be attacking anyone. So, with that said . . .

There is a train of thought that believes that those who are pro-gun or own guns are fearful and/or angry. It’s a train I can’t get on and don’t believe, and I think those who truly embrace that ideology don’t really know true gun owners and their hearts. The majority of my friends own guns, use guns and/or collect guns. Not many (if any) are stock piling them. In fact, if you do the research, I’d venture to say that the stockpilers are those who own guns illegally or intend to use them for harm. Even if guns were banned from the United States, these folks would own and misuse deadly weapons.

Personally, I don’t know one angry or fearful gun owner. None of them live looking over their shoulder waiting for an opportunity to use a gun. However, like me, a person who doesn’t own a gun or choose to use a gun, they are cautious and vigilant, aware of their surroundings. I’m personally glad to know that there might be 25 people in a crowd of 100 who have a concealed carry. I know that should a crazy person come into the room threatening to injure innocents, they would be prepared. And I also know that if they could keep people safe without ever firing their weapon, all of my gun carrying friends would do so. Evidence shows that many times merely holding the “bad guy” at gunpoint until the authorities arrive is enough.

I’d like to ask those who are anti-gun, “Do you lock your doors at night? Do you lock your car at the mall or even in your drive?” If you answered yes to any of those three questions, I can’t help but wonder, “If you think my friends own guns because they are afraid or angry, are you afraid or angry when you lock those doors?” Because I lock my doors for the same reason my friends carry guns, not out of fear or anger, but because I want to be safe. My locks are because I am vigilant, because I know that there are people who don’t know Christ. There are people who are fearful and angry. I feel bad for them, but not bad enough to let them rob my house (hence a lock) or shoot up my family (hence a gun). If they allow me to help them (stop their behavior long enough for us to share love and respect), I would do that. But the church in Charleston, SC tried to share love with the young gentlemen who came into their service and it didn’t stop his behavior. Had he decided not to shoot up the place, those folks would have loved him into some self-esteem and understanding of how to live at peace with others. Instead, so many needlessly died. One gun on one church member could have probably held this young, troubled man at bay and perhaps allowed him to begin a healing process. Instead, even if he discovers the truth that his hatred and bigotry was wrong, he will always have to live with the blood on his hands. Jesus can forgive him, but will he ever be able to forgive himself?

Disarmament will only lead to government tyranny and giving power to the “bad guys”. You can hate guns. You can choose to not carry a gun. But to ask other sane, able bodied, caring people to lay down theirs is not only arrogant, but detrimental to your own safety. Believe me if you are in a movie theater and a gunman walks in, you’ll be thankful if the stranger sitting next to you ignored the “no concealed carry” sign when he came in the door.

Thanksgiving Reflections (not necessarily Thanksgivings)

These are some thoughts I’ve had today that I would normally post on Facebook, but I don’t want to clutter anyone’s timeline with negativity on a day when even I want to see positive Thankful thoughts . . .

  • Does anyone else want to make a list of grammar corrections to send to NBC for the parade commentators . . . you know, things like subject/verb agreement . . . ?
  • I can’t trust someone who comes to America and refuses to celebrate Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving is not a religious holiday, it is a national holiday. Even if you don’t believe in God, you can be thankful.
  • I’m protesting stores being open on Thursday, but putting stuff in my online shopping cart. Is that hypocritical since some IT person is working today because you know all of us protesting the stores being open are going to overload the Black Friday sites?

I may add to this list as the day goes by . . . but it will probably be kept short because I really am thankful!