So many folks have asked my opinion about guns lately. They did it on Facebook, so I’m not sure they meant it. I started to reply to two people, but decided to put it here instead so those who wanted to read it could, and perhaps I wouldn’t get the hate replies I’d see otherwise.
One friend understands a total ban of guns isn’t the answer, and she mentions love, hope and faith.
My thoughts . . . banning guns won’t make a difference. Stricter laws won’t make a difference. Most of the ones used are gained illegally. They are breaking the law to take the gun on school property.
This friend is correct, we’ve lost our center of love, faith, and hope. Throughout history, when that center has been Yahweh and then Yeshua there has been care for the neglected and forgotten. In every time period, the people who respected life the most were true followers of Yahweh and Yeshua.
Jesus Christ has been proven to change the hearts of people, yet, even Christianity today isn’t what it should be. We water it down to make it palatable, and it becomes destructive. Again, proven through history. Many nations embraced Christianity, but they had to make it work for their society, and when they changed Christianity to meet their needs, their nation crumbled. They tried to “win people to Christ” by means with which Christ never asked them to, and gave Christianity a bad name.
Today, in America, a nation who tolerates Christians at best, people don’t feel loved. They don’t understand respect.
Even if you take out the Christian aspect, if children were just taught to respect others, much of this would stop. I read a statistic from Japan about their “deaths by gun” (which I believe is skewed because it’s an unbelievably low number) and one thing in that country that would create a lower percentage is that they instill utmost respect for others into their children.
Even those with terrible mental health . . . if value of life had been instilled in them at a young age, taking a gun and killing others would not be one of their early instincts. There would be so many other signs that it would be much more obvious there was a danger. There’d still be a few cases that would slip through, but by and large, what is instilled in us as children is difficult for us to overcome . . . bad and good. The mentally ill who have been learned to value life and respect others will take their own life before they will take another.
But today, kids are given war games as early as six years old. Life is something that regenerates and killing and blood are nothing. We have a desensitized population.
Respect is a bad word, unless of course you are under 20 and the one being “disrepected.” Didn’t anyone ever tell those kids they don’t deserve respect. They deserve to be treated with love, with compassion, but not respect. Respect is earned, and sometimes it’s earned through title . . . teacher, principal, doctor, president. These titles get my respect even when the person holding them hasn’t earned my trust.
And more and more folks want to ban guns or types of weapons. That was the lament of my second friend. As much as I’d like to agree because I don’t think they are necessary, I believe this is a dangerous practice. History has proven that if a government is given too much absolute power it will become corrupt (or it is corrupt if it seeks that kind of power). If the people are unarmed they become susceptible to an evil government. Most tyrannical leaders and governments who were able to wield any power in the past have begun with disarmed citizens.
I understand it’s a delicate topic, but let’s take the focus off the weapon! Stop it! Find ways to help those who are so disturbed they feel the need to take a weapon to a school. How badly have they been hurt, even unintentionally, in that place to feel like that’s the place to begin their killing spree.
Put a great counselor/psychologist in every school, someone who will meet with every child in the school every quarter and be available to show love and compassion to those who aren’t getting it at home.
Force parents to show respect to teachers, even those they don’t like. The schools should quit bending to parents who think their child should get their own way every time. Force parents to force their children to follow the rules. No excuses. I’ve seen kids with ADHD follow the rules, yes, they need a bit more understanding, but they showed me respect and I could tell they were doing their best to follow the rules even when their bodies were rejecting sitting still.
A person willing to kill children in a school has been emotionally scarred. Let’s stop that! Let’s enforce policies which don’t allow one teacher to be with one student. Let’s help children understand that is never allowed no matter what the teacher says. Let’s give more love to children who don’t know where they have to go each night after school because they have a split family and go to grandma’s house two nights a week, dad’s one night and mom’s another. Let’s keep an eye on kids who are with babysitters a lot. When they show signs of even a little abuse, let’s investigate.
Why aren’t there free clinics for those who feel like they need to kill someone. Why don’t I see billboards for that as often as I see ones for those who want to quit gambling. I’m pretty sure the casinos are required to put up those billboards, let’s start a free hotline and ask the gun companies to fund those billboards (I bet they would – without legislation).
There are a lot of things that could happen to help this situation, but the focus is so skewed toward gun regulation that the people who need help aren’t getting it.
Stop discussing guns!!!
Start discussing humans!!!